Saturday, 21 March 2015

How a child see the things

The universal truth which tells each individual is born with distinct characteristics helps them to look different from the other person in the crowd. As a child it develops from within the day he/she is born. The day on which I was born I couldn't remember how the outside world looked. But my parents say to me that it was raining heavily on the day I was born  and according to the astrologists it could have been some sign.

The best part of life is the childhood. When a child is born it becomes the happiest moment for their parents. They try to think for the future of the child, what should he wear, what should he eat, this and that. But what goes in the mind of the child? The child is of care free nature. He laughs when he is happy, he cries when he is not happy, he does every silly things which becomes a part of the talk when he grows old. The best part is, a child can do anything that he wants and he is not criticized for it.

The surrounding in which the child grows plays an important role in his future behavior. Right from the learning stage a child is taught, that this is right and this is wrong, you should do this and you should not do this and it is from this the child comes to know about the right and the wrong things. And slowly the process of differentiation as I described in my previous post takes place. The happiest moment in our life is when we are allowed to do the things which we like, but this changes as we grow, as there are many restrictions and we have to make choices. So look at your childhood and bring back the sweet memories and think
are we leading our life as we thought?

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