Bon Sentiments

A new day will be a new beginning, but is it really a new beginning? Majority of the people follow the same routine every day. The same schedule, be it work or the college or any other part of living a person is involved in. The same thing over and over can make a person feel dull and boring in their both personal and professional life. But amidst this, the person who tries the same work with different perspective and love whatever they are doing remain active and enthusiastic.

The same routine and the schedule just got over when we finished our first semester of Master’s Degree. The daily 8:00 am to 8:00 pm in the campus, assignments, online exams, presentations, group discussions and many other activities were the part of the daily routine. But this schedule has made a daily habit in us. Wake up in the morning, get ready for college, go to the college, attend the lectures, and carry out the daily activity and it would lead to a successful day. The habit has been so formed that now each one of us are used to it. Every student is geared up for the internship for a month. Some have joined some are yet to join. And this is the part of our college life.

I have also learnt many things from the life and the learning process keeps on going. The first semester is over and new things are ahead of us and new challenges will be there in future. The time flew so fast and so much has been taught to us. New Year is round the corner and many people are busy making their resolutions, to do this and to do that the coming year. But though many of them make it some of them are able to follow it and implement it. Life is changing very fast with the change in everyday environment. Many people come and go in our life but some of them stay forever.  

This is the story of my life and I have faced many things in life. The struggle and how I overcame it has been stated in my previous blog. But in this I am going to write something more interesting fact. Love, this word carries different meaning to different people and different situations. It may be the parents loving their children, the brothers loving their sisters and the love between the friends. The other part of it is the relationship between a boy and a girl. The deeper insight to this meaning will be written now.

For most of them it may seem just a word. But for me the word is just the beginning and what unfolds is the true meaning. From our childhood only, we are taught to be good, have good manners, respect others, be happy and make others happy. Through the socialization process majority of them still follow these habits but most of them choose their own path. As there are two sides of a coin many people go for a topic and many go against the topic and this is how life runs. When we grow up we come into continuous interaction with the surrounding that involves the people in it. These are the person associated with us in our growing process. And it is true that like minded people tend to form a group of their own and interact.

I was very introvert type of person who only would like to be alone and rarely would like to be socially outward.  This was the nature of mine but now I am slowly opening up and am trying to be more open to others around me. Some instances change our lives forever and we would like to hold those forever in our life. We hear people saying, being in a relationship is not good and it hampers a lot, it is against our society or what will people say if they see you. Each individual is born free but taxed in this world. I always point out to the society and this involves the people living in it. I firmly believe that an individual should live his or her life on doing the best thing they like and not by the influence of others.

Relationship makes people stronger and responsible. I truly think that when two person are in a relationship they tend to care for each other, they tend to be more responsible towards the things which they view in their life. And the best part of it is that the understanding between the person becomes more intense.  Yes from the above writings you must be thinking that I am in a relationship? I will write about in the following blogs to come. I would like to suggest to all that whatever you love the most fight for it, care for it, stand for it as it is your life and it is you who will be held responsible for all your decisions. Don’t be regretful in the future by thinking that what if I would have done that at that point of time. It is better to act now than to regret in the future. It is the special feeling which only few people can experience and the best part is you know that there is someone for you to care about, for you to share countless information, for you to make laugh when you are sad, for you to fight over the silly things. And yes I am moving on with this feeling and PWS I would like this feeling to stay forever in my life. I will write about it in the future, till the time stay blessed, spread love, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all of you.